Divorce Quiz

Is Divorce the Right Option for You?

Our quick assessment will help guide you through. Every marriage is different, and so is every divorce. It’s normal to be unsure which course of action best suits your situation. Cage & Miles is here to help you determine the best path, whether it’s marriage counseling or initiating the divorce process through mediation or litigation. We understand the stress that can accompany these decisions, and we’re committed to providing you with the information and resources you need to feel confident about your next steps.

Starting the divorce process can be intimidating. Be sure to understand your options so you can move forward with confidence. Take the quiz and find the information you need to move forward.

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In The Quiz, Discover Your Divorce Options

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Litigation

This is a traditional path for divorce. Litigating your case means going to court and entrusting the judge to make fair decisions. This is an appropriate option when you and your spouse can’t reach an agreement about major issues like child custody and property division. It may also be the best option in cases involving domestic abuse.

Mediation

When you choose to resolve your divorce through mediation, you and your spouse will retain a neutral third-party professional to help facilitate agreements on the terms of the divorce. Mediation provides more privacy than litigation and allows you more control over the decisions that are made.

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Collaborative Divorce

Like mediation, collaborative divorce is private and hands-on. However, you and your spouse will work with a larger team to reach an agreement. In addition to a mediator, you may work with a financial advisor, a mental health professional, an accountant, an asset appraiser, and others.

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Negotiated Settlement

The Negotiated Settlement is an agreement reached by the parties outside of court but not necessarily through the mediation process. In San Diego County the court requires a mandatory settlement conference as a mandatory step before your divorce case goes to trial. If a negotiated settlement is reached, the parties will avoid the emotional and financial ordeal of going to court. The negotiations remain confidential and allow for a little more flexibility.

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Frequently Asked Questions

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If you're ready to start talking with an attorney to start the divorce process now, schedule a free introductory call with our Client Intake Specialist. From there, we'll work with you to find the best way forward for your unique situation.

Start by taking our Divorce Quiz. In just a few minutes, you’ll get clarity on which path may fit your situation best.

It’s possible to file for divorce without an attorney; however, ending a marriage can be complicated. If you have assets or children, getting legal guidance can help you protect your interests and ensure that your paperwork is done correctly the first time. Additionally, filing for divorce without a lawyer may become even more difficult if your spouse decides to hire one. The attorneys at Cage & Miles have extensive experience in family law and will work hard to serve as a resource while working toward your desired outcome.

About Cage & Miles

Experienced, Trustworthy Family Law Advocates

When you partner with the expert team at Cage & Miles, you can rest assured that your attorney has the knowledge and experience to handle your case — no matter how complex. We’re proud to have eight board-certified family law specialists on our staff, a distinction granted to less than one thousand California attorneys.

Paired with our long case history, this specialization uniquely positions us to help families through the ups and downs of divorce. Our team is committed to helping you understand your options and choose the best path forward.

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CLIENT Testimonials

What Clients Are Saying About Cage & Miles

Jaime & Shannon did a great job for me. I always felt like I knew what was going on with my case and like they listened to what I wanted. A few times I was pretty upset about my case and Jaime explained everything to me so I could understand and calm down. It's amazing how much they know off of the top of their heads. They are great attorneys and people, and I would recommmend them to anyone else in a heart beat.

Alex G

Divorce is a messy business and not always pleasant. Shannon Miles was very knowledgable and matter of fact (which I really appreciated). Her team at Cage & Miles were easy to work with, professional, thorough, and cared about providing a good experience for their clients. I appreciate all of their hard work and follow up to get my divorce finalized. I would recommend them if you need a good lawyer.

Amy Allen

Great firm. They have been over the top exceptional! I have a "high conflict" case and Jaime has been amazing with every tantrum my ex throws our way. They are also knowledgeable about personality disorders which are helpful in my case. Jaime and Shannon take the time to explain the divorce process and help make a smooth transition for you and your family.

Amy C

Hi - I am eternally grateful for Traci Hoppes and her team at Cage & Miles - on the contrary of being a divorce attorney, she has saved our marriage. Traci is a CFLS (Certified Family Law Specialist) with an abundance of experience and expertise in her field of practice. She is also gifted with her experience and understanding of addiction and how to navigate these troubled waters. She has saved my young children from harm's way, and this is not a debt in which I can repay. Traci has forced my wife to look at herself and made her accountable for her actions, this in turn has brought about her sobriety and her joining AA. She is two years sober now and still working on herself. I am proud of her and her continued sobriety. Thank you again, Traci all the best to you!

Andy Chien

I hired John Sylvester two years ago while I was going through several issues in my family law case. To date, he has helped me resolve every single one of those issues in my favor. His professionalism and knowledge of the law is second to none. He was always responsive when I had questions. He helped me understand how everything worked, from RFOs, to subpoenas, to trial litigation. John always had a plan, and he was always prepared. He was able to take all the information I gave him and make sense of it all. John never pushed me to spend more money and Rebecca the co-owner was kind enough to work out the financial aspects of my bills with me. I consider myself fortunate to have had the opportunity to work with John, and I have already recommended him to friends and family who want the best family attorney in San Diego.

Anthony C

I was represented by Cage & Miles and their legal Team. Let me start by saying that there is no better law firm to help you with a personal legal matter that you have no idea where to start. I worked mostly with Ryan an Amazing, Knowledgeable, Ambitious, Professional young man with such Integrity. Never leaves an e-mail without being answered promptly. Answers all your questions in layman's terms. He speaks to you with such respect and never lets you feel shot down. It was a long and weary 2+years but there is no other law firm I would have wanted to stand next to me. Thank you!

Ari Hernandez

I cannot say enough good things about Maria and Cinthia and the firm! After a terrible experience with another firm who constantly had me working with different people, never following up with me, and dragging my case out for over a year, costing me so much money, I was discouraged to say the least. I came here where they listened to me, always got back to me quickly, and charged me fairly! Thanks to Maria listening to me and working with me, she got my case settled and got me everything I wanted within a few months of me switching to her as my lawyer. This firm helped me feel like I got my life back and they were such a blessing. They always communicated efficiently and I couldn't recommend a better firm!

Ashley a

You cannot go wrong with Cage & Miles. They are truly exceptional. I found Cage & Miles at an incredibly difficult time in my life and I found everyone at the firm to be very compassionate to my situation. Jaime is extremely knowledgable and put me at ease. She answered all of my questions and listened to my concerns. I want to thank Jaime and the rest of Cage & Miles for their time, compassion, and exceptional legal advise.

Audra P

My ex is a total asshole, I can't thank Cage & Miles enough for putting him in his place and helping me and my daughter get out of a really bad situation. Use Cage & Miles if your husband thinks he can take advantage of you!

Ashley L

They are very good company to deal with the family law, I had Mehry Mohseni and Stephanie they did an awesome job. They will let you know what is going on in your case, help you how the court works and put you in the picture when you go inside the court what you expect to happen. They will prepare you for your court day very well.I’ll recommend them to anyone going through these kind of problems they will do their best for you.

Aya Lockman

I highly recommend Cage and Miles if you’re going through a divorce. From the start, Jaime walked me through the process, gathering information and all the while was very empathetic to what I was going through. In nearly every situation, she was able to predict exactly what my ex would do, and in hind sight I wish I had followed more of her advice. This is an emotional time in one’s life, and I let past feelings cloud my decisions.

Bill J

Cage & Miles provided the best service for my divorce. Not only did counsel, Jillian- Duggan Herd help me with a very difficult ex-husband, she was successful in navigating his narcassitic tactics. The support LaTosha, Robert, and Andrea are proficient in what they do. I can express my gratitude for having such a knowleable and understanding team. Defiantly recommend Cage & Miles for your legal needs.

Blonks Von Epps

I was involved in a highly complex and exhaustive family law case over the last couple years. Jillian Dugan-Herd was my 2nd attorney and thanks to her it's finally over! She is honest, fair, intelligent, professional, kind, unbelievably fierce and highly respected not only by the judge but also her colleagues (I saw that 1st hand). She's quite simply a bad-ass. Other attorneys were coming out of the attorney room telling me how hard she was fighting for me. I was humbled by and grateful for her intense dedication to my case and her incredible ability to argue on my behalf. She never gave up! I was wholly represented and no words will ever fully express my gratitude! My case was not an easy one and the results she got me were fair but also life changing. I know I would not have gotten the results I got with any other attorney. Listen to her, she will not steer you in the wrong direction. She has your & your children's best interest at heart.

Brandee D

My experience with Cage and Miles has been exceptional. Going through an incredibly difficult life change has been considerably easier knowing and experiencing the benefit of having legal representation that I can trust. Shannon, Jaime, and the entire staff have been outstanding. I highly recommend seeking help from Cage and Miles!!!

Bronson Harker

I can’t recommend Avi Levy enough. He represented me during an extremely difficult and toxic divorce and was a constant source of strength and professionalism. Thanks to his expertise and commitment, I was awarded full legal and physical custody of my children, which was my greatest priority. Throughout the process, Avi was always available to answer my questions, guide me through every step, and ensure I felt supported. I knew I was in excellent hands, and his skill and dedication truly made a difference during one of the hardest times in my life. If you need someone who will fight for you and put your needs first, Avi is the one to trust.

C. Weiss

I utilized Steven Brumer at Cage and Miles to navigate me through a very difficult divorce. Steven was both highly knowledgeable and professional and made certain that I was well informed throughout the process. I would definitely recommend his services.

Carrie Gaida

Highly recommend. I couldn't have made it through this without the support of the Cage & Miles Team. They were always there for me and walked me through all the nuances of the process. They are very experienced and knowledgeable, they explain it in non-legal terms so that you can understand the situation. They are always open to ideas, approaches and this allows you to evaluate options with facts of the laws.

Carol Lembke

Jaime is amazing! She was a referral from a friend and she took care of my needs during my divorce. What was amazing was that her consultation was free and never felt pushed to use services. As everyone knows divorce is tough enough and feel Jaime was sensitive to that. As a Christian I am always looking for kind and good people. Jaime is not only been so kind but as a Christian she made it easy and less scary for me. I can only say I was blessed to have her as my attorney. Even if your not Christian, kind people is important to this service. I highly recommend this office to everyone. Carrol

Carrol G

Steven set my mind at ease immediately. My situation felt incredibly difficult and extreme. After our initial consultation I knew that when the time came for me to act that Steven was the perfect professional for me to hire. He was very diligent dotting every “i” and crossing every “t” while carefully explaining each step through completion. I can’t imagine anyone else doing a finer job. Thank you!

Coach Miller

Maria and Cinthia are an amazing team. They were very helpful in processing my divorce. Explaining all the details and filling out the paperwork. I highly recommend them.

Crystal T.

I appreciate all of the ladies that work in this office! They helped me get through such a disastrous divorce and horrible life event! Hopefully I will never have to experience this again,but I thank Cage and Miles for being a trustworthy team that I was always able to count on through the process.

Darci S

2 years ago, I found myself in a place that I thought would never-ever happen to me. I was in a ugly divorce. I was referred to Traci Hoppes, and as soon I spoke to Traci, I knew I was in good professional legal hands. Traci and her legal team took all my worries away with a better than expected outcome of a ugly situation. If you're in a similar position I'd definitely without a doubt recommend you hire Cage & Miles to handle your legal concerns. Thanks Traci

Daryl Jones
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