The U.S. military has staggering rules and regulations their service members must follow, and there are swift penalties for disobedience, including dishonorable discharge. When faced with an unfamiliar situation, military members may wonder how they can adhere to strict regulations. One of the most perplexing issues faced by military members who wish to dissolve their marriage is what the requirements are for a military divorce.
Military Divorce versus Civilian Divorce
Most Americans understand basic divorce proceedings, either through secondhand information from friends or family, or from watching divorce proceedings in TV shows. However, it’s worth noting military divorce follows completely different protocols than civilian divorce, meaning you must educate yourself about many convoluted regulations the service has in in place for military divorces.
Why You Are Required to Have a Civilian Divorce Attorney for Your Military Divorce
As a service member, you may not be aware that your military divorce must be handled a civilian attorney; however, the U.S. military does provide free legal counsel from Judge Advocate General (JAG) officers. These JAG officers are stationed throughout the country. If you are the non-service member spouse, you can also visit JAG, but each spouse must use a different officer to avoid conflict of interest. For example, when an army base only has one JAG attorney who first meets with the civilian spouse, JAG can refer the enlisted service member spouse to another JAG officer. JAG consultations are free; however, JAG cannot file for divorce.
Spouses must have a civilian attorney file their divorce paperwork. There are family law attorneys who also specialize in military divorce and/or mediation. JAG can direct the estranged spouses to the correct state and county to file their divorce paperwork. Each spouse must hire their own civilian divorce attorney to represent them, should they decide to go to court.
Should I Choose Mediation Instead of a Court Trial for My Military Divorce?
You may wish to avoid a potentially lengthy, expensive military divorce proceeding in court. That’s why many service members and their civilian spouses prefer mediation services to eliminate litigation proceeding. Once the spouses file divorce paperwork, they meet with a legally certified civilian mediator. Spouses do not need their own attorneys during mediation. The mediator is a neutral third party at our firm who helps the couple decide how they wish to handle child custody, child support, and division of assets, such as any shared property. When mediation concludes and both spouses agree to the terms, the law firm files the proper divorce documents with the court.
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